Infographic Gallery - I have 3 'selves'

Real vs Ought to vs Ideal

#PersonalAttributes
#HopeToBeWhatKindOfPerson

Self-understanding / I have 3 'selves' / There are a wide range of personal attributes: temperament, learning abilities, communication skills, self-control, perseverance, sense of humour, responsibility, compassion, adaptability and many more. / When growing up, we acknowledge the values of those who are important to us, and unwittingly internalise their expectations of our personal attributes as our own expectations. / The real 'self' / The personal attributes that I think I currently possess / E.g. I am a person who gets angry easily. / The ought 'self' / The personal attributes that I think I have the responsibility to possess / E.g. I should be tolerant and forgiving to those who have offended me. / The ideal 'self' / The personal attributes that I aspire to possess / E.g. I want to be a popular and attractive person.

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